My view towards Friendships

Friendships

Introduction

Friend aka Partner(P). Friendship is a unique and cherished relationship that has a significant impact on our lives. In this blog, we delve into the concept of friendship and the levels of intimacy that I would like to maintain with my friends. 

The Essence of Friendship

Friends are the individuals who often become our pillars of support, confidants, and guides in life. For me, they hold a special place in my heart. I'm open about my feelings, thoughts, and experiences with them, sharing the highs and avoiding burdening them with my lows.

Defining Friendship

My definition of friendship is fixed. It's not merely about casual interactions but a deep, meaningful connection. To be considered my friend, a person needs to pass various levels of analysis, including responsible altitude, emotional, psychological, strength, information management, and more. It's a rigorous process that takes time and patience.

The Power of Platonic Love

Platonic love is the cornerstone of my friendships. I believe in the purity and essence of a friend who shares life's joys and sorrows without much romantic or ulterior motives. This love forms the basis of my interactions with friends.

Friendship Preferences

I have a deep appreciation for friends who embody qualities such as cuteness, innocence, kindness, humility, maturity, intelligence, and stability. These attributes make our interactions more enriching and enjoyable.

Physical Intimacy in Friendship

In my friendships, physical intimacy is vital. I value the warmth of hugs, the comfort of cuddling, and the affectionate gestures reminiscent of a parent and child relationship. These physical expressions of love and care enhance the depth of my friendships. However these should not much romantic gestures or gestures corresponding to higher levels of physical intimacy.

The Testing Period

Making a friend is not an easy task for me. It involves assessing the person's emotional intelligence, psychology, few aspects of health, mental stability, philosophy, purity, analysis qualities and many other aspects. This rigorous testing can take maximum seven years to complete. Even after that, small periodic assessments are usually taken to ensure that the friendship remains trustworthy and true.

Maintaining Friendships

While some may have numerous friends, I find it more manageable and beneficial to have a maximum of two friends. Maintaining such an intimate relationship requires dedication and effort. Currently, my friend count stands at one, reflecting my high standards for friendship.

Revealing Friendship

This is actually an interesting topic. I am or gonna be a highly private person atleast over few things in my life. In the domain of friendship, I would not reveal any one who my friend is. I respect the thought of my friend having a private life. I won't like to be a burden on him/her especially through the people around me.